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Masturbating Techniques


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First up, environment

It doesn't necessarily matter where you choose to use your vibrator, what's important is having no distractions - no texts or emails, no loud chit-chat from anyone else in the house - (you don't need to hear what happened to so and so yesterday and why she couldn't get a refund for a very expensive piece of furniture she bought mistakenly thinking it would fit her apartment but it so didn't - like have you seen her apartment? It's tiny, there's no way she could fit it in her apartment...... -While you're trying to get off. Uber distracting) 

We want total environment control which will lead us to-

Frame of mind is turning down the stress and anxiety of everyday struggles and focusing on yourself - a temporary selfishness that we all need to experience once in awhile.

If you think you're more of a giver than a receiver in the bedroom, our suggestion for enjoying your experience as much as your lover or with yourself is open and honest communication before hand.

Let them or yourself know that you're going into pleasure mode - silence or music and authentic moaning is good, but no sounds for their benefit. The more you get yourself out of your head and focused on what feels good, the closer you'll get to your orgasm.

This may sound spiritual but focusing on your breathing is a sure enough tactic to building an orgasm when getting stimulated. As underrated as it is already, breathing is a natural relaxant and if you're struggling to let go of any outside stressors, taking a few deep breaths will automatically calm you down.

As you inhale the oxygen floods your brain and body allowing you to calm your state of consciousness and as if by magic feeeeeeel more.

B E L I E V E  M E  when I say that just by breathing deeply, whilst using a vibrator, will help control your orgasm - yes, that's right I said control. 

You may think that orgasms are just hiding behind a door waiting to be tempted enough to come out, but with every breath you take it's like you're pulling it closer with each inhale. The more you inhale, the closer it cums to you. Literally.

 

Now, something all of us girls are good at is fantasising like a damn Cum Queen! Your frame of mind is where it's at for thinking about that one time you did something super sexy with James Franco and he was like "what's happening!" and you were like "shhhhhhhhhhhh we don't have much time" - who knows? It's your fantasy. 

If you're struggling to think of a fantasy or struggling to feel good for whatever reason, keeping your eyes closed, or use an eye mask and keep your breathing steady is the best way to visualise what's turning you on - feeling the vibrations will definitely be helping those good feels get around your body, but the combination of your mind and body is what makes an orgasm legendary. 

Back in 1992, a legend named Beverly Whipple came a long and co-wrote The Science of Orgasm. Her and her colleagues an experiment where they monitored the blood pressure, heart rate and pain tolerance on 10 women who claimed they could think their way to an orgasm!

NO DOUBT that 7!!! of those 10 women experienced the exact same physical responses caused by  h a n d s  on  s t i m u l a t i o n.

Fantasy is a tool you'll want to master, simply devoting 100% of your attention to those thoughts can go along way in regards to your orgasm journey.

Now we're in the staging process - building anticipation

While you're thinking of those delicious sexual memories or movie scenes, another stimulating technique which is all part of the staging process and great for warm ups is hinting.

Now or when you're comfortable, begin to hint around the sensitive area - touching everywhere but your clit and it's lips.

Start slowly and build speed when you get closer and closer.

Teasing the area but not touching it directly.

Trace your hands or your vibrator around your goodies and feel the sensations through all the nerve endings and little hairs, tickling your appetite with each gentle stroke. 

Slowly you'll notice the blood rushing to your vulva as it begins to swell with anticipation and when you're ready, move to the opening of your vagina and tease the perimeter. 

As tempting as this is, you will be begging yourself or your lover to PUT SOMETHING IN! But once again, the longer you hold out the more it builds.

The last destination is hinting around the clit, passing up and down or side to side - keep it irregular and focus on what feels good.

Now with your vibrator in hand, time to start with experiencing edging.

For those who don't know, Edging is when you feel the orgasm getting closer and you STOP. When that big wave builds, stop whatever you're doing and let that wave settle down again. Doing this repeatedly grows your orgasm.

Think of it as if you're a water-bender from The Last Avatar - stopping every wave that comes at you and allowing the waves to build into one big tsunami of pleasure that will consume you when you desire. 

Biggest tool to use here is control. It's easy to feel the wave of pleasure coming and to surf it out till you reach the shore, but trust me when I say, the more you build, the bigger the reward. 

Multi pattern vibrations in a vibrator can help with another masturbation technique called Rhythm.

Rhythm is where you tap gently and repeatedly in the same good spot to any beat of your own, except instead of the tap it's whichever pattern tickles your fancy. Doing this as you orbit around the clitoris in figure 8's or small to bigger circles will rise your sensations to a new level.

Try a new pattern with your vibrator each night and experience the differences in orgasms. 

Miss D's toys offer multi pattern options with all of the vibrators available.

And last but never really last - 

Overcoming the sensitivity of a fresh orgasm may seem like a difficult task because it tickles or it's too intense but if you work back to getting another stronger, bigger orgasm, you'll land with the exciting tally of multiples.

Now I'm not suggesting you rush right back in, savour the orgasm and feel it deeply. Let it last for as long as possible and feel the happy chemicals flood your brain and body.

If you're on top of him / her / or your vibrator continue to ride it out and position yourself and get your plate to ready for seconds.

Multiples are like 3 courses - without the calories.