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How to Use a Vibrator


New to vibrators? Wondering how best to use one? You're in the right place!

Before we begin, it's useful to know that depending on what you’re in the mood for, you can use Miss D’s vibrators with different patterns and levels of intensity, which is awesome because - as Hannah Montana puts it - you get the best of both worlds. Who ever said too many choices was a bad thing!?

If you feel like teasing ya self to up the ante, start with a low vibration, running the vibrator all over your body before you go anywhere between your legs. Once you’ve teased enough, edge yourself with the intensity of upping the vibes to a higher level.

Let’s do this

Starting With Your Erogenous Zones

This can be by yourself or with a lover - either way you'll probably wanna get straight into it, putting the vibrator between your labia and over your clit will spark that firework immediately. But Miss D will recommend over and over again to start in other places. 

Like your arms - turn your chosen vibrator on and very gently drag it along your arms, specifically the wrists and your finger tips - feeling for the sensitive areas and tease yourself, bring it up to the nape of your neck and around the back of your hair line and over your head - it'll tingle.

Try your chest, play around and explore which areas feel the best. One special area for most women is the glorious side boob right near where the nipple begins. The reason behind this is your boobs can take a lot more pressure compared to your super sensitive nipples, so gently combining the two areas will always feel good. No wonder we like a good boob squeeze every now and then!

Head down to your hips and the side of your thighs. Before turning onto your front to play with your booty which is full of nerve endings just waiting to be stimulated. 

From your booty head to the soft area behind the knees - it's a super ticklish spot so get ready to giggle.

From your knees play down to your feet. There's a reason why people love a good foot massage, (or a gentle toe-sucking) and it's because the stimulation of your feet lights up a part of your brain that's next to the area that connects to your genitals.

Any sensations you feel are ultimately sending signals to your groin which is already building tension.

Tracing the inside of your leg make your way up to the sweet zone, tease and touch but remember:

Your beautiful womanhood is so sensitive that you should now spend this time exploring areas around your clitoris that also feel good – specifically right above the clit, the top of the v where your lips start. 

The sides of your labia lips are also great erognous zones to press the vibrator onto, the pressure is up to you- remember -once you've found a good spot, check out some other areas and you'll be like Bruce Almighty lighting up the sky with stars!

Be sure to head down to top of the opening of your vagina for a deeper orgasm.

And finally, with the use of an internal vibrator, check out the cervix which is basically next door neighbours with the vagus nerve. This nerve sends the messages to the brain that builds up for those intense climaxes! Ha - some nerve.

The cervix can be found near the door to the uterus & positioned at the top of the vaginal canal. When aroused it can lengthen past it's 9.4cm (on average) size and some men can't reach this (boohoo) so that's where a vibrator steps in!

*Heroic music plays*

Exploring that mountain of pleasure is also going to trigger the sex crazed girl you’ve been keeping quiet for so long.

Hygiene

Pretty straight forward, each product has care instructions included but in any case of emergency vibrator-hygiene-knowledge, a cool hygiene hack is vibrators are relatively easy to clean, they’re all waterproofSimply pick up the soap and splash some water on there to give the bad boy a clean. 

BUT if you're feeling a little tired tonight & don’t feeeel like taking your panties off, using a vibrator over them is basically like having sex with clothes on. You feel amazing & there’s little-no mess to clean up afterwards.

Give it a go ;)

Patterns and Levels – wha dat mean?

Patterns: are like on and off pulses – like waves of vibrations in different rhythms. Patterns are a great way of experiencing many different masturbating technique as it keeps you from experiencing the same old orgasm, the same way, at the same time, with no real hype or fireworks.

Levels of intensity: is the long buzz of vibrations, ranging from low vibes to medium, to high, to fucking earth shattering vibration – any of which will do juuuuust fine, test out which one's work for you. 

Why your boyfriend’s going to have just as much fun

Most of us girls know that when it comes to positions like doggy or missionary with ya man on top, it’s quite difficult to climax from clitoral stimulation – well, THIS IS ALL ABOUT TO CHANGE!

Using a vibrator during sex with your lover is not in any way emasculating his capabilities to get you off, it’s just sometimes he can’t either reach it or do what needs to be done to get you there. It’s not rocket science, we’re not throwing a Tesla car into space here, okay.

The fact that you get to climax in positions you otherwise usually wouldn’t is a gift in itself.

(Your boy shouldn’t be grumpy about you wanting an aid to get you off as well, it’s a two way street remember, if you don’t get off – he shouldn’t)

Cool biology:

When you use a vibrator with him, the vibration is not only running through you but it’s going to be stimulating him inside you! And not just from the vibrations, but crazily enough your vagina will do a sort of ‘squeeze’ of his penis every time you get closer and closer. Ever heard of kegels? Well, this is them naturally.

With the vibrator targeting your clit and him inside you – well, it’s like having a biscuit with a cup of tea, having dinner with dessert, having your cake and eating it too! You’re bound to hit those 10-15 waves of orgasmic pleasure.

 

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